Compete with Men

Working among men and whether there is good. It's good, because usually the women will receive priority in matters of concern. Generally men will understand if you can’t do heavy work that relies on physical, such as lifting the computer and so forth. But basically, he feels has greater rights to get things better than women. The man would not budge in the business.

1. Men really understand how to achieve higher positions than women

They also know the ways to beat women. Because culturally, character, style and ability between men or women, is clearly different. Apart from physical matter, there are several things that cause men superior to women. Usually men are more rational, realistic, competitive, daring, initiative and aggressive.

But that does not mean women should always lose to him. Especially in the current era of technological sophistication, in fact you can more freely to improve its position and pursue a career high. There are several things you should avoid if they want to win to compete with men.

Attracted by the cheap were physically more attractive women than men, physical beauty, but should be coupled with an extensive intelligence and insights. This is very important for success in your field. Stop your boss's attention and co-workers in a negative manner, such as wearing a tight mini skirt, spoke with flirty styles and spoiled, or too much in the dressing, Because if you succeed in that way, you will still be considered low.

2. Complain
Men do not like listening to a variety of complaints expressed by women, because for him, it's just a waste of time. If there is a problem and must ask for their help, express in the usual way, with no tone of complaint. Men prefer to discuss the problem while looking for solutions rather than complaining about it.

3. Always Spread the Rumors
Although women are identical with the gossip, but do not make yourself as a source of gossip among them. Do not convey information that is not clear the truth and do not talk about negative things about anyone. Do not get the information you pass it affects stability in the office. I could have, your reputation will be ruined.

4. Too much talk about personal problems
Many men think that women are not professional because it often confuses personal affairs with the job, Order to avoid these assumption resist the desire to share your personal problems. If you do need a vent, be selective in choosing friends sharing.


Crying in front of him, Instead of making them untouched, it will actually make you look weak and whiny, any heavy problems you face, try to toughen up. As a woman, you should appear as a highly powerful, smart, competent, and dignified in front of coworkers. Although there are no written rules about it, it would be better if you heed these few things, so you really can compete with the men.

5. In the world of work, not many important positions held by women
Is this a sign of a weak woman in the world of work? Actually, there is no relationship between gender by career advancement, No matter male or female, if you want to speed quickly dashed career, immediately eliminate attitudes that can make a career path in place. There are some attitudes that are often inhibiting career unconscious women.

6. Lazy hone leadership
Paternalist culture, making many women reluctant to target ourselves as a leader, In fact, the reins of leadership is not solely dominated by men, Should target the character of leadership that wants to be trained so that they can make a realistic plan to get it working, do not waste the opportunity to take basic training leadership training. As an additional reference, the book also learned about the basic leadership.

7. Working 'half of the heart'
Unlike the men, who worked on the grounds of self-actualization, achievement orientation and target achievement, some women consider a job as a 'distraction' fill time. As a result, many women are lazy and give up quickly when a problem in the workplace.

As a solution, find the motivation that grows from within, outside of extrinsic motivation as the reason for leisure or to get additional revenue. Recognize and recall the intrinsic motivation will encourage you to view the totality of the work intact.

8. Do not master a foreign language
According to some studies, 'program' the female brain is more easily absorb the lessons compared to men. But many women are less aware of the strengths and opportunities that can be achieved when mastering a foreign language. The solution, build self-motivation to understand clearly the reasons have to master a foreign language. Make learning effective and simple target. Start reading foreign magazines. If you have trouble understanding the article in the magazine, do not rush to stop. Follow the foreign language courses, especially those that provide native speaker teachers.

9. Reluctant to make the evaluations work
Lazy to make a recapitulation of the work, because it is often regarded as extra work, whereas boss would appreciate it if you are proactive and consistently perform routine evaluation work. The solution, set aside time periodically to record the work already done. Use your computer and find the right system, which facilitates a recapitulation of work. Add info recapitulation as something of value-added, rather than mere administrative work.

10. Lazy in socializing
Usually, the reason for lazy employees to socialize with other divisions in the office is that he never had time. But it can’t be refuted, socializing with other divisions is important. Aside from being a network of 'intelligent' information, the colleague who you know will be lighter helping hand when you need help. Create a fun atmosphere. Start with simple, spoken with colleagues in other divisions or to participate if there is an opportunity that allows meet colleagues from different divisions.

11. Not interested in technology
Women do tend not interested in the technology world, whereas if you also explore a variety of existing programs or features on the device technology, will certainly facilitate the work. All you need do is recognize the basics of technology devices that support the program of work, do not need it all. You need to immediately change the mindset that technology is the power of man. Identify the problem happened and how to solve it before calling the IT staff.

12. Do not read newspapers
Many women more feel fit and quite satisfied with the tabloid gossip, while a newspaper or business magazine considered a reading man, Lack of knowledge regarding the latest issues surrounding the business, making it difficult to enter the 'territory' higher working position. Try to start reading newspapers and business magazines or follow the discussions in the professional community. Invite a colleague to discuss a hot topic in the newspaper.

13. No mastering public speaking
The ability to speak in public is the best way to 'sell' them-selves in the world of work. This capability is useful to make a name and your figure more quickly known. We suggest you multiply the reading from a book or magazine on this topic. If you feel unable to learn his owned, follow a short course is the best solution.

14. Ashamed to show success
Not wanting to be arrogant, when successfully perform important tasks and get a compliment, you just feel more comfortable being modest, hid themselves in the success of these contributions. Begin to appreciate yourself for your accomplishments, even the slightest. And, do not ever refuse a compliment. No need to over-respond to a compliment, simply say, "Thank you."

15. Ignoring the challenge
Often, when given a big responsibility, fear of failure haunts the mind directly. As a result, instead of taking the challenge, you just rejected. Better, do not refuse if offered a deal with any project. This is an opportunity to show off. Prepare the project as possible. Take time to prepare a variety of purposes to solve the problem.