Kamis, 08 Oktober 2009

Why Must Love Me to Work Together?

Love can grow anywhere, including in the workplace. Especially for singles who spend most of his time in office. Love story too, no need to stay away from work place. Nothing wrong indeed, fancy work together, But you must be careful not to hamper or even destroy the romance a career that never was built with ease.

There are good and bad side if you are involved in romance at the office. Well, you do not have to bother with the time to meet with him, because every day, you can see her in the workplace. In addition, you become more familiar with their activities.

However, if you can’t maintain relationships, romance in the workplace will only hinder you, especially if you're feeling too comfortable with them, so you no longer want to associate with other colleagues. This will allow you both to squirt and do not know the development office. Your friends will stay away.

Or, if you decide not to cover them-selves, a sense of jealousy may arise. When he did not have lunch with you, and spend time with his friends, jealousy is definitely there, have different levels in different people. Should be recognized sooner or later more relationships with colleagues will influence the working atmosphere. You may no longer feel part of one big team, but a small team with a lover. This certainly affects work productivity and professionalism.

Consider your level of position two. If he was your boss, think about it before deciding to date him. Going out with the boss would sparked envy from other colleagues. Consequently, you should be ready to work hard to prove the skill and professionalism in order not to be accused as the golden boy and he was accused of favoritism. He will also feel the dilemma if one day, he must notify that you got fired, for example.

If she and you are on my level, career competition could also lead to conflict in relationships. Are you ready to compete with your spouse? Or he's ready to see you rise to the top of it faster?

Relationships at work is not easy, therefore, many companies prohibit the marriage of the employee. This also should be a consideration both of you, especially if you and he already have a coveted position in the company now.

Conversely, if your relationship does not run smoothly, try to remain professional. Do not do anything that you regret later, like crying at the office or to tell everyone about ugliness.

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